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		<title>Went to the Rink &#8211; Been Quite Awhile</title>
		<link>http://stevebellnow.com/2012/02/03/went-to-the-rink-been-quite-awhile/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 17:52:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other day, I was asked to attend a ice hockey practice by a parent to watch their son. They asked me to see what he could work on to get better. I used to coach ice hockey for over 20 years. I love the game.  I had not been out to the rink in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://stevebellnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/8780055_s.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-2647" title="8780055_s" src="http://stevebellnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/8780055_s-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>The other day, I was asked to attend a ice hockey practice by a parent to watch their son. They asked me to see what he could work on to get better. I used to coach ice hockey for over 20 years. I love the game.  I had not been out to the rink in over a year or so. I was excited to go to the rink. Couple of hip replacements and not being able to really skate &#8211; makes going to the rink difficult.  Off I went and sat in the stands. When I walked into the rink, there was that usual rush, smell and sights. Definitely brought back some great memories. My mind was racing for that hour or so. I watched the player and for that matter practice overall. Something jumped out at me right away&#8230;</p>
<p>Watching another coaches practice can be an eye opening experience. I have seen a lot of practices on all levels. When you watch another practice, you can always pick up something that you would like to use in your practice. This practice was a pretty good one. There were some very good things going on our there. Almost every player was moving at all times &#8211; my mark of a good use of ice time. Teachable moments were being applied to individual players and the team as a whole. What happened next, was the gauntlet drill. Checking in hockey is one of those items that is important to teach the proper technique. For those that don’t know the gauntlet drill is supposed to help the player with puck control while  receiving a body check. It usually is done along the boards with the player with the puck skating with the puck up the line of the other players wait to check the player into the boards.  Most coaches use the drill to get every player used to receiving a check… Getting other players to check more… This particular drill has to be well supervised. Coaches need to insure that proper checking technique is used. What typically happens is not good. Hands start to raise up towards the head. Players move in close to each other (not giving the player time to recover). Hence someone gets hurt. In this case, it was the teams best player that suffered a concussion when the biggest player used his size and improper technique to smash the players head against the glass. It was not the first check that was improper, but the drill ended when one player got hurt. There were a number of opportunities to have a teachable moment before the injury, but every player and coach was excited about the crushing checks that were being delivered.</p>
<p>With all of the focus on concussions in football and hockey, it is time for coaches to make sure that they are protecting their players and teaching proper technique. I used to tell the parents, &#8220;checking is a part of the game. It happens. I will do my best to teach each player the proper way to give and receive a check. Realize, the best part of my responsibility is to teach players how to play in a safe environment and have fun doing it!&#8221; If we were to use a checking drill, it was in a controlled and safe way. Never will you see my team run a gauntlet drill. We may have a one on one situation like that, but it will have a coach watching and instructing after each check.  I used to get mixed emotions from some parents on that. The gauntlet has been around a very long time (I used to have to run it). Many of the parents remember their experience. My only comment was did anyone ever get hurt? Where the checks always properly delivered? We will check, but we will do it right!</p>
<p>I met the parents after the practice and gave them my observations. I asked them, if they told their son that I was coming to watch him practice. They said &#8220;no.&#8221; Practice is important. Sacrifice is important. Does he shoot pucks at home? Does he do stick handling drills with a golf ball at home? How much effort do you think he is putting into hockey outside of scheduled practices? They said some, but not a much as he could. I didn&#8217;t want the parents to think that he should only be focused on hockey. He is  young and needs to experience life. He should set goals around how much time he will work on shooting, passing, fitness, stickhandling and studying the game &#8211; outside of practice. Have him record his time on what he is working on. He then can see if his work is paying off in playing time, effectiveness on the ice or just how he feels about what he is doing. I stayed till the player came out of the locker room. Asked him if he felt that he gave his all in practice? He said, not really. Stressed to him the importance for him to take advantage of the ice time given. Work hard and excel every time you take the ice. Passed along to the player the same things that I told his parents. I felt honored that I was called. I thanked them all for that honor and wished them well.</p>
<p>Now, I am wondering if I need to get back to being involved&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Change&#8230; Really?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 14:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have listened to many a sermon (well, maybe just a call to action) from the leader of an organization that started out the year with a &#8220;New year, need for change &#8211; an organizational change…&#8221; How many times have you seen the new organizational charts come out with some shuffling of the decks, or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://stevebellnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/10218458_s.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-2630" title="10218458_s" src="http://stevebellnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/10218458_s-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>I have listened to many a sermon (well, maybe just a call to action) from the leader of an organization that started out the year with a &#8220;New year, need for change &#8211; an organizational change…&#8221; How many times have you seen the new organizational charts come out with some shuffling of the decks, or &#8220;new&#8221; folks coming in? The call is for organizational change… Can that really happen? My honest opinion is &#8220;no!&#8221; No matter what you do to shuffle the deck or add a new person to the organizational chart will do nothing. What does it take for &#8220;real&#8221; organization change? Think about that for  a minute. I think we all have ideas about that. Well, here is my take…</p>
<p><strong>Look at yourself:</strong> If you want change you have to be the first one to step up and make the change that you want. How many times have you watched the leader say, &#8220;we need to change and here is where I think we need to go&#8221;? This is the one area that we can learn from those that have failed in the past. I really feel that the change starts at the top. I used to tell my team, &#8220;hold me totally accountable. If I am failing, tell me!&#8221; Step up and lead.</p>
<p><strong>It is a two way street:</strong> Make sure that you are making it more than just a powerpoint presentation. Have open and honest communications with your team. I know we all have seen the nice slides and gotten some charge out of them, but when you want to go deeper, there was nothing deeper. Make sure you have open lines of communications.</p>
<p><strong>Make that change &#8211; obtainable:</strong> It is easy to look at something that is so far out there. We all like to have visions of grandeur, but please be realistic. Make sure that everything that you want is something that CAN happen…</p>
<p><strong>Get the troops involved:</strong> If you really want change, you better figure out how to include your team. Setting expectations is something we all have to do. There is no question about that. It is important how you include your team in that process. The most successful changes that I have witnessed have one thing in common, everyone was standing together around the vision. Start small and encourage them. The rest will follow, especially if you have done the first 3…</p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t rush the troops:</strong> It is always easy to push for results. Be patient, please. Take your time and encourage your folks. Failure is always just around the corner, especially if you rush everyone. Stand firm, but remember that patient is a virtue.</p>
<p>I bet there is always more that one can do to make sure that the change that they want, will happen. From my experience, these are the things that I need to have to look at. Do you have anything to add?</p>
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		<title>Show Your Stuff. How&#8217;s The Value?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 14:55:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What a day Friday the 13th was. I was running around doing stuff! Lot&#8217;s of stuff. For most people it is that time of the year for performance appraisal&#8217;s. A few folks were discussing the validity of performance appraisals and how to really measure one&#8217;s worth. Throw a question out like that and the creative [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://stevebellnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/11833632_s1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-2621" title="Value" src="http://stevebellnow.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/11833632_s1-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>What a day Friday the 13th was. I was running around doing stuff! Lot&#8217;s of stuff. For most people it is that time of the year for performance appraisal&#8217;s. A few folks were discussing the validity of <a class="zem_slink" title="Performance appraisal" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Performance_appraisal" rel="wikipedia">performance appraisals</a> and how to really measure one&#8217;s worth. Throw a question out like that and the creative juices start to really flow.</p>
<p>How do you know that you are providing or increasing your worth to the organization? Here is some of that discussion and some additional thoughts from writing this blog post.</p>
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<li> <em><strong>Make sure that your work is part of the bottom line</strong></em>. Make money for the company and you will be valued. Think of it as a return on investment. Think of your work and make sure that you are providing an <a class="zem_slink" title="Rate of return" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rate_of_return" rel="wikipedia">ROI</a> on everything that you offer (time, skills and so on).</li>
<li>An oldie but goodie, <em><strong>time is money.</strong></em> Watch your organization and see is everyone valuing time is money? Spend your time wisely. Would you invest 8 hours doing something that you can deliver in less time with the same results? I think of presentations as an example, putting in way too much time putting pretty charts, pictures and words that add no value to your work. We all can spot fluff when we see it. Make sure you are not producing fluff.</li>
<li><em><strong>Only you can sing your praises.</strong></em> This one is a hard one, sing too loudly and you cause harm. For me, I always made the comment that my work should speak for itself. Well, that is not the case. Make sure that your manager understands the effort you put into the job and the results that were produced. It is a delicate balancing act. If you don&#8217;t do it, you will lose out…</li>
<li><em><strong>Learn to say &#8220;no!&#8221;</strong></em> I used to think that &#8220;no&#8221; was a bad thing. From my many years of experience, most managers love to heap on the work to those that deliver. Getting on that treadmill will have an overall effect on your work. Start missing deadlines or having quality issues &#8211; that will have a bigger effect on your value. Only takes a few mistakes to wipe out your hard work.</li>
<li><em><strong>Listen and learn.</strong></em> If you don&#8217;t know what you don&#8217;t know, then seek out some knowledgeable advice. Do we all really know everything? We all know people that think they know and dance around it. How does that really look? Saying you don&#8217;t know now, but will get the knowledge soon, will be valued over dancing on that topic. Most people dance pretty bad.</li>
<li><em><strong>Everyone needs to know sales.</strong></em> Not sales in the sense of selling a product, but you do need to sell yourself. This is not making yourself better than you are. If you are pitching an idea to your organization, you have to be convincing and sound. You have to know how to talk about the overall value, what is needed and defend your ideas with solid research and passion.</li>
<li><em><strong>Have a life!</strong></em> A couple of items come to mind quickly. I have written about vacations that turn out to be working vacations. As a manager, you set an example that your organization will follow (or at least the expectation has been set). You need your time off.. The other one, sometimes is hard to pinpoint. I have learned a valuable lesson since retiring. I am not measured only by my job and my accomplishments. Life is short and there is so much out there. Getting that life will give you lessons that maybe will apply at work. At the very least, the rest will do you good.</li>
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<p>There probably are more, we just ran out of time… Do you have any to add? Please share!</p>
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		<title>What To Look For &#8211; Next Opportunity</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 14:06:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As many know, I have been looking for a &#8220;second&#8221; career. I heard someone use the term that I was semi-retired. I guess that is true. I really am not ready for &#8220;real&#8221; retirement. I have way too much to give and learn. Not finished by no means. So, I was thinking about what I [...]]]></description>
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<p>As many know, I have been looking for a &#8220;second&#8221; career. I heard someone use the term that I was semi-retired. I guess that is true. I really am not ready for &#8220;real&#8221; retirement. I have way too much to give and learn. Not finished by no means. So, I was thinking about what I would be looking for in that next organization or company. Here are my top three things I hope to encounter on my search.</p>
<p><strong>Organizational Culture:</strong> Is it defined? Can I get a sense of what the culture is from looking at the organizations website, social media presence or networking with employee&#8217;s both present and past? I really want to understand the culture of the organization. It is extremely important to me that I find something that matches up to my skills and passions when I looking for that second career. When I am being interviewed, I also sit and learn from the interviewer. Get a sense of the teams culture within the larger organizations culture. Is it the same? Gives you some questions later on.</p>
<p><strong>Reviewing the hiring process:</strong> There is much to be learned from experiencing the hiring process from the beginning. How difficult was it for you to get into the job req system and apply. Nothing worse than getting in and almost submitting to have the system just fail at the end. I know many companies use an automated system for this work. The question that comes to my mind is, &#8220;did they pick one that is user friendly, or just not?&#8221; Many larger companies may outsource their recruiting process and only pass on the reqs that they feel fit. This sometimes will frustrate job applicants because everything seems to go into cyberspace. When I get passed all that, I usually am observing how everything goes. Is it smooth? Organized? All of the process is the organizations audition for you. Bad experience there, may kick off a bad experience later on.</p>
<p><strong>Respected Leadership: </strong>In this day and age, we get information from many different sources. Finding out about the organizations leadership and how they train their future leaders is pretty simple to find. Do some simple searches. What I am looking for is an organization that has some respected leaders in their industry. Look at the vision of the organization, the people that work there and training for those leaders.</p>
<p>Finding information is easy &#8211; you just have to look. Using that information and what you know about yourself &#8211; well, that is where you can put yourself in the best situation. When I am sitting down doing my due diligence, I am looking at those three factors. It starts with organization research on culture (fit me, go to apply). Apply and the hiring process should allow you the opportunity to audition the organization. Basically answering #2 and #3. Hopefully all works out&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Retired Guy Series Update: Last One for 2011</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2011 15:08:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The past month, I have been hit by email updates about what am I up to. Someone actually wrote to say, why no update to the Retired Guy series. I am shocked… I really did not think that people actually read those. At least there are a few. Now is the time to update.. From [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The past month, I have been hit by email updates about what am I up to. Someone actually wrote to say, why no update to the Retired Guy series. I am shocked… I really did not think that people actually read those. At least there are a few. Now is the time to update..</p>
<p>From the personal side:</p>
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<li>The hip replacement has gone as planned. Everything is healing as expected. The physical therapist is happy with the progress. It is looking like I should be able to get back in the gym within a week or two. Just in time for me to work on getting some of the weight off, from sitting around during the holidays.</li>
<li>Thanksgiving and <a class="zem_slink" title="Hanukkah" href="http://www.history.com/topics/hanukkah" rel="historycom">Hanukah</a> went well. Getting together with family and friends is something special every time we do it. Watching the grand daughter&#8217;s open up their presents is always a delight. Those faces light up!</li>
<li>Holiday and birthday parties. Our house was used for Haley Elementary staff holiday party! The weather sucked that day, by Arizona standards. It was rainy and cold, which took the party to the inside. There were 69 or so folks at this one. My wife did an amazing job! The other party was for my grand daughter, Melia, she turned 3. My daughter decided to use our backyard for their party. Both were awesome events.</li>
<li>We are in the middle of some projects at home. House painting (inside) is underway. Since I am not able to really do the painting, I am having some amazing people do the painting. They are doing a very nice job (and they are extremely clean about it).</li>
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<p>From my other activities:</p>
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<li>I continue to take care of the <a href="http://www.facebook.com/HaleyElementary">Haley Elementary Facebook</a> page. We are starting to really see some traction from the parents and teachers on using this for events. The calendar is working out great. We continue to add photos as well. The other day, one of the local newspapers started to share our information out.</li>
<li>We are in the last couple of days left in 2011 and Az4Education is busy working on getting the last bit of charitable donations by the end of the year. So, if you are in Arizona and what to help a student out &#8211; <a href="https://www.az4education.org/sto/">check us out</a>!</li>
<li>I continue to look for my &#8220;second&#8221; career. With the end of the year, I am starting to notice more jobs opening up. Some of them have definitely caught my attention. Submitted a few job applications to those. We will see what happens.</li>
<li>Got together with some of my old co-workers. I definitely enjoy meeting up and catching up with those people. They are great friends. We talked about everything under the sun. Some of the topics were No Pants, good times, plans for the future, help needed and just general BS. It was all good stuff.</li>
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<p>From the Blog side:</p>
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<li>I am working on changing the theme. It is time. I have narrowed my choices down. I am deciding between the Thesis or Genesis Themes. Anyone have a preference? Remember, I am a novice at making changes&#8230;</li>
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