When I heard – most Americans feel that Washington is broken. Well, that is my opinion. I don’t care which side of the liberal or conservative beliefs you are on… The fact is Washington is broken. There is no what that anyone is going to get anything really done in the current way Washington is working today. When the President was talking to the very simplest ideas of how things could be better. We all got to see that many stood and applauded and others sat and did nothing. There were a lot of examples of this. For me, I wanted to know where my Congressional folks were sitting and to see if they were in support or just sitting idly on their soft spot.  Why? Would let me know if my elected officials were doing the job that “I” want them to do. I was someone sickened by the way the display of the Congress is showing support for making America better.

How I am going to make it better? Well, that is a tough one – as I am only one person. I believe that actions have to start somewhere. I believe that I need to do something on my part to make where I live a better place. I owe it to my kids, grand kids and the future that comes. Back to my question, how am I going to make it better!

• I have to first educate myself better on the overall reality of what I hear. I know that there is more ways to report out statistics and facts can get shifted a bit. I need to understand reality. I need to know more! Time to be an informed voter…
• Understand how my elected representatives are doing with their voices and voting on those important topics. I need to see who is doing what, by their actions.  Asking the all important question, “are they acting on my behalf or their own?”
• When it is time to vote… VOTE. The only way my actions are going to be heard is by voting. Doing my homework on the candidates, their past actions, promises that they make (and have kept) and the stance on “my beliefs”. I am only one vote, but if we all get out their and do our part, then change can happen.
• Get involved… Spend time meeting with or corresponding with your elected officials. Time for them to hear my voice… If I think they are doing a good job on something – let them know. If I think they are off base – let them know (with options).

I hope to never witness a sight like I saw last night. When we see the party lines being drawn in a State of the Union address. Has this been going on forever? Yes, but it is time to stop. The President used an analogy to the US soldiers and how they must work together to accomplish their mission – or it will fail and people could get killed. He was trying to call out each branch of government on this. We are at a crisis level on almost everything – it is time to really work together to insure that America is the best it can be.

So, I am putting on notice to all of my elected officials: I am going to learn more, review your performance and let you know my thoughts. You want to stay working for me – you better be doing what is in my best interest (I am just like every other 98% of America).

Step up or get out of the way…

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Today was an outstanding day for it. At the local Starbucks there were lines both in the drive thru and inside. I just sat and watch the interaction around me. Since the lines were not going down (more people just kept coming in), I went to a different area of the shopping center, Basha Grocery. Another place that was pretty full in the sitting area. I pulled up a spot on the counter and observed there. What I was watching was the different generations and how they go about their morning routine.

Inside Starbucks, they were pretty full with generation X and Y folks. A few boomers were in the house, but very few. Watching the folks interact definitely demonstrates the difference within the generation. Most of the X’ers were busy discussing with each other how long the lines were, how much they were looking forward to Thanksgiving and how bad the economy and the political leadership was doing. There were a few of them busy working away on their laptops. I noticed email mostly.  The Y’s were busy too, they did not share many words with anyone. They were busy using their smart phones to stay on top of things. In fact, one mother said to her daughter, “will you put that thing down, all you ever do is use that thing 24×7.” The reply back was pretty good, “well, you are communicating with your friends and so am I – they are just not here.”

When I was in Basha’s, the crowd was definitely different. The folks that hang out there in the morning are mostly baby boomers. They were drinking their Starbucks and having donuts. They spent most of their time talking with whoever passed by. Many of them were sitting by themselves and were just reading the paper or sitting in silence until someone walked by. It was definitely a gathering place for them. Their conversations were centered on health, family and worries about social security.

When you are out and about, take some time to just observe people. Look at the difference of folks, like age, and how they interact differently. This will help you interact better with them. When I was in Basha’s, I said hello a lot. I needed to be prepared to have discussions with folks that I just did not know. We talked about everything and anything. In Starbucks, it was bit different. For most of the folks, they just looked at me and moved on with their morning routine. For the some of the Y’s, they would see my laptop and smart phone, and would stop to say hi. I just needed to have some of their “toys” to seem to fit in.

Communicating with the different generations is sometimes difficult. When I was with the boomers (my peeps), they settled to hear a bit but their stories were really good. The generation X folks, they were the one group that did not open up. They pretty much kept to themselves. For the generation Y folks, they opened up pretty easy (once they saw my toys) and we had some really good technology discussions. They focused on what I use, what they use and were open to trying new things. Overall, it was a great morning!

You stop and think about that for a moment. Do you have a leader that steps the forefront, one that you say – that is a leader? Anyone today? All of what I would call great leaders are in the past (John Kennedy, Ronald Reagan). Look at the mess that we are in, our economy, lack of jobs, attempted recovery that has cost billions, debt and the list goes on. Looking at a recent Gallop poll shows the lack of confidence in our so-called leaders. We elected them. Congress is running at 15% approval rating. Our President is bouncing in the 40′s for an approval rating (usually goes up after one of his well prepared and delivered speeches). Why is everything so low?

• Look at the list of issues that are going on all at the same time. Economy, lack of jobs, failed attempts at reform, debt and lack of pulling together to get the job done. Maybe this is too much? I don’t remember this much going on back in the good ol’ days. Again, maybe I can only remember the best of times. Having too much on the plate definitely causes a lack of focus. So, maybe pick a couple of issues, fix them completely (not argue about it). I do remember that whatever was going on in the past, we did what was necessary and got through it. Are we going to get through it – now? Of course, but it is going to be extremely painful. We need real leadership to make that happen. Since we elected the last group, and the confidence level is at 15% – time for some huge changes. Time for us to act.. We need folks that will act!
• Observing leaders actions are something that are very telling. When you really look at the leaders of our country, you see folks that are worried about how we perceive them. I know I stated the Gallup poll results, I bet our political leadership looks at approval ratings. Worried more about how we see them, rather than the actions that they do. Leadership is not about worrying about how your followers think about you as a leader. It is about the vision, goals and the leaders actions – that is why we follow. Stop worrying about what everything is thinking about you. Get out and get it done… Stop working against each other and get together for what is needed for this country. Enough already.
• People are just sick and tired of reading and watching the news. Today, we get instant information. That comes with good and bad. I like it, when stuff is out for public consumption. Don’t hide anything. The downside is we usually don’t get much good news. The facts sometimes are not fully disclosed until it is too late. If we are tired of what we see and hear – we show it in the confidence level that our political leaders are getting today.
• This one maybe a slap in the face, but maybe some of those folks best days are behind them. Their best work was years ago.. Time for a change!

Maybe it is me, but I see today’s political leaders as not leaders. Like I wrote earlier, I did not want this to be focused on the political aspects only. Principle’s of leadership apply and it is time for some much needed leadership in political office.  So, what can you do?

• Get educated in politics. Don’t just sit back and look at the candidates when it is an election year. Stay aware of what is happening real time. Understand what is going on with the hot topics of the day (well, pick the ones that are really important, there are way too many).  What actions are happening. Who is really making a difference, if any.
• Action is what is important now. So, when you hear words – wait for actions. No actions, then they failed. I don’t have any political aspirations, but if you do and action is your middle name… Go forth.
• Let your leadership know your “true” feelings. Since they are worried about how we perceive them. Write to them, tell them exactly is on your mind. They were voted in to act on your behave. Time to stop all the party positioning and let’s roll up the sleeves and get to making stuff happening.
• Rethink your past votes. Look at their performance today (not their past re Watching what some of the voters did in Arizona with recalling a failing leader. I was pretty excited to see that folks are taking control. It is costly, but probably not as costly as leaving them in.

Look when you are out in the world.. And you see a lack of leadership in the organization you are working in – you have choices. You chose to follow particular leaders. With our political system, that is hard, but not impossible. We need to step up and take control. Our future and the future of our kids, depends on it.

I was thinking back over the years to some of the other things I have heard.

• We celebrate it as an end of summer.
• How about this one? Labor Day is the last day of the year for women to fashionably wear white.

• Kicks off football.. September usually is the start of the NFL and NCAA football.
• When I was growing up. Labor Day was really the start of a new school year. There are still locations that wait to around Labor Day to start up..

I like to think of Labor Day is a day to celebrate for the working men and women. With way too many folks not working these days, puts a damper on Labor Day. Maybe I will have to look at this holiday as some of the off the wall ones above. Or hopefully, Congress and the President will look back on when in 1894 Congress was able to act quickly and make a decision. Only 6 days… We need action now more than ever… We need more jobs! Not the call for more jobs, but actually jobs. How about it folks?

I have interviewed well over a thousand or so folks in my 28+ years as a manager. If I talked to anyone, I owed them a personal phone call to communicate my decision. I fully understand that this is a time consuming process of reaching out and communicating your decision. If you were good enough to make it through the screening process and interviewed twice – you should at least get a call. Why not? Afraid of the potential conflict or an awkward situation? Any adult would feel disappointed in not being selected. We all want to feel that we really were the right person for the job. Fact is, we were not. Someone was selected over you. It happens… I for one, am not one to take it personal. I would like to get some feedback. Only fair?

When making that call, which I have always done.. I would do the following:

• Communicate my decision. “I am calling to inform you that you were not selected for my current open position. I am sorry to say. I would like to share some of my thoughts on the interview and your qualifications for the opening.” I would then go onto communicate the impressions that were shared in the interviews.
• Be honest. Sharing your impressions and the impressions of the interview team can be tricky. If they are not experienced enough to get the job, tell them what they potentially needed to work on. I know, some folks are going to come out and probably be defensive on this, but the interview plainly did not demonstrate that the experience was there. Maybe doing a better job in sharing that experience will help in the future.
• Ask for questions. Ask the candidate if they have any questions. Be honest with your answers to the questions.

Maybe it is the sign of the times – Automated Messages. It is bad enough that we get them when we submit for a job, wait around and never hear back. Once you have interviewed, we now have people involved. Especially if you have made it to the short list. Two separate interviews by two levels of the organization. Getting personal, I think.

Me being me, I found an email from someone within the company and sent them an email, to see if maybe the two folks that I interviewed with could provide some feedback. It has been a long time since I was on the other end of interviewing. Maybe my passion was really a bit much. Maybe this or maybe that. I am not really sure.

UPDATE: Over a week has gone by and nothing back in email from my request. I will probably never know really “why”. 

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