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Leaders Born or Created?

Nov08
2011
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The few days back, I saw a tweet go out that asked are leaders born or can they be made. Just two days ago, I overheard a discussion at the local Starbucks on this topic. I have heard many different arguments over the years. I go with both! When I was coaching youth sports, I get the opportunity to witness first hand those young folks that are born into leading. The experience that I am going to share comes from coaching youth hockey ages 7-10. There was always one or two players that just stand out from the other players as leaders. Many of my peer coaches would say that they are their best players and lead by example. Which probably is the case more times than not, but I had a few rare players that were not the best players but were the best communicators and team mates. At those ages, they did not really have any time to learn how to do that, they just did it. It comes natural. When I look back and then look towards today – those leaders are still leaders, just doing it in different places.

I do think that some training and coaching of people to be leaders is possible. In the workplace, you get to interact with many different folks, some standout for their potential in leading a team. From  my experience I have seen both sides of the spectrum. Those folks that have the ability, but really want nothing to do with leading. They prefer to just do what they are doing. Other folks want to be leaders, but frankly, don’t really demonstrate the initial abilities or characteristics necessary. Having discussions with both sets of folks is interesting. For me, I want to make sure that my teams are set up with secession plans. I want to develop my folks to help them achieve their dreams. Here is where I believe that training and mentoring comes into play. Everyone has a blind spot or two that needs attention. When you step into a management role and really want to do well, you need some training. You really need someone to help you with highlighting those blind spots and putting focus on the “right” areas. Training and follow-up will help lessen the blind spot. For me, leadership is something that is a life-long learning experience. There is always something new to learn or find out about yourself.

Leaders need to be honest, have a demonstrated track record of success, be excellent communicators, place an emphasis on serving those they lead, be fluid in their approach, have laser focus with a bias toward action. Some of those items come natural. Others can be helped along. So, when I hear or see that question about are leaders born or created, I go with both…

Posted in Leadership, New To Management - Tagged coaching, feedback, Leadership, listening, managing, people, thoughts

Book Review: Do The Work by Steven Pressfield

Nov07
2011
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This weekend I finished up reading “Do The Work” by Steven Pressfield. I follow the Domino Project and saw this when it first came out. Do the work is definitely an eye catching title, especially for those of us that are kicking off several projects. So, I downloaded the book for my Kindle (unfortunately, the book sat waiting on me to clear my backlog of reading). Once I dove into reading the book, I truly enjoyed it. This is my kind of book. Short, direct and bold. This book is a wake up call for creative people. So, if you think you are a creative person, this one is for you.

I really enjoyed most, that the book addresses nagging and lonely thoughts that we all have about the resistance. Anyone who creates anything struggles with resistance. Presssfield refers to that resistance as a “dragons.” You must slay the dragon in order to move on with what you are trying to ship.

This is a very short book! Much like my book review. Go ahead and download it and you should be able to read it in an hour or two. So, if you are stuck in your project, business or whatever you doing… Then get this book, it will help you.

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Book Review: MOJO by Marshall Goldsmith

Nov04
2011
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Timing is everything. This book has come in handy in many ways. Have you ever started to read a book and slowed down  to do what was asked of you in the book? MOJO How to Get It, How to Keep It, How to Get It Back If You Lose It by Marshall Goldsmith (affiliate link) is one of those books for me. Let’s set a bit of the background as to why. For those that are frequent  readers of stevebellnow.com you know that I retired back in January. After spending 28.5 years with my employer, I felt that it was time for me to do something different. Reading MOJO really hit home for me. I really could relate to ever section, chapter, case studies and exercise within the book.

Your mojo is described that inner spirit or drive we have to do what we do best starting from the inside and expressing that outward.  I think this is because I actually really love the concept of mojo and internal motivation that drives us to excel. For me, I really did pause and answer the questions about me. Goldsmith’s keys in the book are identity, achievement, reputation and acceptance. Starting with identity, there is a very tough question to answer, “Who do you think you are?” For me, pausing there definitely was a sole searching adventure. I had plenty to think about (past, present and future). When it comes to achievement, you are asking, “what have you done lately?” Really focusing in those things that made you most excited internally. The third element is reputation. It is that all important question of “what do others think you are?” All to easy to really give yourself what you “think” people think of you. What is really in their heads? The last element is acceptance. It really centers on what change you change and what is beyond your control. Questions that you must be completely honest with yourself. Took me sometime to ground myself, but afterwards I was moving full steam ahead.

There is an excellent section on maintaining your mojo and being consistent with yourself and others to ensure nothing prevents your mojo and he explores 10 reason you can quickly lose your mojo which are particularly useful to avoid.  Goldsmith  covers through repeated example a concept of “change it” or “change you” which is really saying that you must decide to change something about your situation to move towards more mojo or you have to change yourself to have different motivators or expectations.  And finally in the book, mojo is explored by using a technique of framing it and naming it.  If you recognize bad habits that kill mojo and give them a name to remind you of that, you can use that name yourself or teach others to use that name to help point that behavior out when it occurs and snap you out of a situation killing mojo.  The section on the tools is particularly helpful for you to really step through the process. Like I said earlier, I paused a great deal during my reading of the book to work on my mojo as it goes with the book. I probably just need to reread the book for enjoyment.

Overall, I really enjoyed reading the book. I felt it was something that I needed for myself at this particular time in my life. I need to get my mojo back… I know of a few of my ex-coworkers that could use this book as well. I already have purchased another book for someone that is about to retire as well. This was a help to me, maybe it can be a help to him.

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Is Your Team Successful?

Nov02
2011
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One of the most frequently asked questions that I got during my training days of “New to Management” was around how do, as the manager, know if my team is successful or not? Great question for managers to ask. I used to think that I had a good team that was delivering their on the objectives in a timely and cost efficient manner was a very good indicator of how well things were going. Sounds good, but there is so much more. No one every really likes to answer a question with a question, but I wanted to use the complete class to brainstorm what a successful team could look like. Off goes the question… “what is your view of a success team?” Here is what followed..

  • A team that works together to accomplish whatever is set in front of them.
  • A team that works whatever hours are necessary to accomplish their goals.
  • Hitting their numbers, pushing product and doing a quality job.
  • The team gets along.
  • Someone in the team sees a problem and the team handles it.
  • Each member of the team is pulling their own weight.
  • Team is not afraid of failure, as they can accomplish anything they set their mind to it.
  • I as the manager, do not have to be “too” involved. The team understands that they are empowered.
  • Work gets done, on-time and within budget.
  • The team helps each other out.

These all sound pretty good, right? I can remember in my early days as a manager thinking if my team was to accomplish these or a subset of them, I felt pretty good. I used to hear from my management that my team was the best one of all of the teams in the department. That was not enough, as upper management to me, is not there daily or in the trenches when work is getting done.  As I gained more experience with managing teams, I started to really look underneath the surface and see how the team was really working together. Asking myself, how does the team accomplish the work that is set out in front of them? What is the overall commitment level of each and every team member? Do they really work together? What motivates the team members to do new and interesting stuff (innovation)? I started to develop my own scorecard for success of the teams that I led.

  • Getting the work done in a timely and cost effective manner – this still is the overall measure of success. That never changes as this is the most visible to the complete department. Getting your work done. If you don’t you won’t be around much.
  • Gauging the overall free flow of ideas and information – having great discussions about how to improve, how to do stuff better, or what is really happening. Having a team that shares the good, bad and ugly when it comes to team self reflection. Doing this in a constructive and not threatening manner. Working the problem rather than focusing on the individual.  The discussions were pretty lively and listening to them build on each other’s thoughts, made me see that a complete diverse team is better than a set of individual’s. Where I worked we used to do a yearly plan for the upcoming year. I used to include my complete team in this exercise. Set up some basic assumptions (budget and rev 0 goals) and what the team work together to set the plan together. The overall ownership of that plan was strong among the team. I usually had to point out that we must not try to do too much, we realize that year over year stuff happens, we must be flexible.
  • Balanced workload – for all team members. It is an easy thing to say, but in practice very difficult to manage. Here is where the manager really has to know what is going on with each individual on the team. Is there too much work being loaded up on all, too much on a few or not enough on some. The team members want to do a good job, they really want to receive praise and better raises and doing more work than the others seems the easiest way to demonstrate worth. Not good for the team.
  • True development plans in place for everyone. “True” development plans require much work from the individual team member and the manager. The team member needs to be honest in what they want to do, how they do it and what do they want to be when they grow up. What is their passion? The manager than becomes the coach and helps to develop a plan that works for the individual and the team. Sometimes the individual’s passion is not within the team overall direction. The manager has to make sure to balance and do the best in every situation. I have had to help get new positions for my team members to insure that the best of the employee, team, department and company were winning.

Some of these items can be measured by metrics, but most of them are more on how you know the team is doing. Spending time with the team in different ways. Being an observer during meetings – rather than talking 100%. Facilitator during planning meetings – rather than telling what will get done. Walking around the office, listening to the team working together – rather than sitting in your office. Asking questions and listening to the answers – rather than assuming you know what is happening. It is easy to take control as the manager.. You may even think that is why you are the manager. Observe, listen and act when necessary – that is truly what your team wants.

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Posted in Leadership, New To Management, Observations - Tagged action, coaching, communication, feedback, goals, Leading Teams, listening, managing, people, reflections, relationship, team dynamics, thoughts

Retired Guy: Long Time, But…

Oct31
2011
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I have been neglecting my “Retired Guy” series. When I started this series, I thought it was a way to keep my friends updated on my happening’s. I never thought that I would get much readership. The other day, I got an email asking for an update to what I have been doing. Followed by another one. A direct message came in. Followed by a couple of instant messages. I guess people were reading the series. About time for me to put forth an update. Hope you enjoy!

  • As many know, I decided to have a total hip replacement on my right side on my birthday. Nice present to give yourself. Everyone had fun on Facebook and Twitter with that one. I am so thankful that I have folks around me that keep my spirits high during something like that. My family was completely awesome! To update everyone – I am doing very well. It has been a little over two weeks and I am moving around quite well. Just waiting for my okay to drive.
  • Az4Education is moving ahead full stream. Been busy working to increase visibility and get the word out. We have seen an increase of tax deductible donations. Of course, we would like to see some more. Non-profits are definitely feeling the effect of the economy. We have seen a huge increase in scholarship requests. Our organization would love to give more.. We just need more to give.
  • Took a short break from searching for my “second career” because of the hip replacement. Hip replacement is going well, now it is time to restart that search. I was able to find three positions to apply for. One of them has already scheduled an interview. Still getting positive vibes from applying. Hopefully, I will find that position within a company that fits the both of us. I have so much to give and yet some much to learn.
  • I am still volunteering with Valley of the Sun Big Brothers, Big Sisters.
  • Continuing to be a community member within the Haley Elementary site council. We are focusing on making the community around the school to be the strongest in the district. For my part, I am helping them with using social media to get their message out. This gives me the opportunity to learn and try stuff.
  • Had some interviews with Experience Matters. They just kicked off the very first set of folks that are helping non-profits. Even though I was not selected in the first round, I hope to hear a more positive response when the next group is selected. Giving back is very important to me.

Time is what you make of it. My time over the past month’s has been a bit fragmented. Since my health is in order, it is time to get focused and serious again. Time for me to be all in. Getting out and about…

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Sign of the Times?

Oct25
2011
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This past month has been a pretty interesting one for me. I have heard and witnessed some things that just make me think, “Do you really mean what you just said?” I am seeing a trend that is making question the overall importance of gathering feedback. I believe that I have had over 5 different occasions of someone that was providing a service say that you will be receiving a survey and please make sure to give me good scores. At first, I just thought maybe the first person, was just trying to be cute and is really warning me that I will be getting a survey (email or call). This happened time and time again… What gives?

Does the company really use the feedback? If their employee’s are already asking or telling to make sure that they get good feedback. What does the company get? Do they really get the right level of feedback from the customers? Is this really a good indicator of the service level? There are so many questions that my head was spinning thinking about this post. Since I was a manager and feedback to me was important on the employee side, my first thought was to that any feedback that was solicited this way is really void of meaning.

What does that employee get? Does the company reward their customer service reps by the quality scores? Maybe that is how the bonus or salary structure is for the employee. Hence, part of me, would definitely see why they may want to solicit positive feedback. Again, putting my manager hat on, I would have hoped that each customer service rep would be doing the utmost best work with each client. Insuring that a positive experience was had by all. So, that when the survey does come out, the client would remember that experience and share in their feedback.

What if no survey is submitted back? My first thoughts now when I hear, “make sure that you provide good feedback on me from the upcoming survey?”, is to not fill out the survey at all. Why would I? Seems like a waste of time. Then I think back to the person that did this and see if they really did provide a positive experience? No shame in filling out a positive survey, if a positive survey is warranted. Maybe that is tied to the pay of the rep! If that person has done an outstanding job, both the company and rep should know that.

Are we setting up a quality system to fail? Seems to me, if I am getting a heads up on the survey and how I am supposed to respond, then that particular system is broken. Don’t you think so?

Here is my plan from now on…

  • I promised to fill out all survey’s. With the information from my experience.
  • If the rep uses any phrase that highlight’s how I am supposed to react to the survey – they will get the scores from the experience. With one big comment at the end, the fact that I was asked to respond positively toward the survey.
I hope that this new trend or “sign of the times” is quickly removed from all service folks pitch. There really is no need to warn the customer or client about how to respond. Just seems wrong.
Posted in Observations - Tagged feedback, listening, managing, people, reflections, thoughts

Motivating Your Team (Workplace or Sports)!

Oct21
2011
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Over many of my posts, I try the lessons of my experiences in managing and coaching sports teams to highlight a particular subject better. This post is more on motivating your work or sports team. What is motivation? Simply put means to “move” to a goal or end point. Motivation is part of the standard management jargon. Leaders are required to motivate their people. How is that really done?

For me, I see two very clear and different approaches.

  • Carrot and Stick Approach – Dangle that carrot out in front of the donkey (employee) and try to get him to where you want to go. Looking at what carrots we have as managers – you have raises, promotions, stock options and cash awards. Or you can use the stick (corrective action plans, written warnings). Each method may cause some movement. Effective? I doubt that any leader can really motivate for the long haul. In sports, the leaders that stand out in my mind are Bobby Knight and Bill Parcells. Each has been a winner wherever they have been. Problem is, that approach without any changes gets old very quickly (also requires participants to like that style).  When was the last time we saw that level of belittling of employees? In the old days, I do remember some leaders motivating this way.
  • Working together to achieve success. I wrote a month or so ago that I really did not see that the manager is solely responsible to motivating the team. I stand by that. The team should work together to set up achievable goals, practice or train for success, track progress and celebrate success. I have been coaching for over 20 years. My initial coaching style was tied directly to what I had experienced as a youth. That hard charging, in your face, carrot and stick style. Over the years, that style has changed significantly. I think this is where the successes with my work teams help me be a better sports team coach. I have had to learn that not all players respond to that style (and over the years there are less and less players that do respond). When I look at coaches like Mike Krzyzewski and Phil Jackson – you see them more for an even different style. Not a carrot or a stick but one of encouragement.  In order for that to work, you must get to know your players, find out their strengths, help them overcome their fears or roadblocks and provide praise for their achievements. They set expectations of their programs, players and work hard to prepare. For me it seems to work both in sports and the workplace.

For managers, I think we need both items in our leadership toolbox. There will be situations that the old carrot and stick method to help breakthrough to a higher performance that could work. Use in moderation…  Setting the foundation for moving to our overall goals is really through the encouragement of our employees. Set solid expectations, help encourage through the good and rough times and achieve. Pull in your team and have them work with you on setting up that solid foundation that you are attempting to put in place. Discuss, listen and change as needed. As managers and coaches, we just need to recognize what needs to be done and do it.

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Personal Thank-you From Steve

Oct18
2011
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As many of you know, I was going in for my second hip replacement surgery last Thursday (10/13). That date is a joke for many as it was my birthday and who else would have scheduled their surgery on their birthday. All joking aside, the hip was bothering me so much that the day did not matter. No one can exactly tell, why and how the joints just failed. It was probably all the contact sports I played over the years, the lack of proper stretching or maybe a combination of both. Either way, both hips have now been replaced.

The big joke with my family is no one wants to go to the airport with me. I get the extra pat downs and screening due to setting the alarm off. I just added another place for the alarm to go off. See me in the airport – realize I plan on at 2 hours before hand. Gives me plenty of time…

Right now, I feel great! I am doing what I am supposed to by taking it easy, exercising and resting. I would to thank everyone for their good thoughts and prayers for my recovery. Those nice words by email, Twitter, Facebook or Google+ are always a welcome sight. Realize that I will be a bit slow to post to my blog for the next couple of weeks – you will understand.

So – thanks again to everyone…

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Tossing and Turning to Success

Oct11
2011
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Ever have a sleepless night because something important was hanging on your head? Work and life can definitely give you something to think about when you are trying to sleep. Got a big presentation to a large group the next day? Having to have a real deep discussion with an employee, that you are afraid will not go well? Going in for surgery? One of your adult children are getting married the next day? Some of my best work has come when I was worried about a situation and spent most of the night, tossing and turning worrying about that situation. For that big presentation, I would be reviewing it all night long, trying to insure that I presented all of the key points. Trying to understand all potential questions and have answers for them. That difficult discussion is one that I really play over and over again in my head. Have to be prepared for the worst and hope for the best. I’m writing this today, because in a couple of days, I will be going through my second hip replacement surgery. Since, I have already been through it about 3.5 years ago, I am playing the whole situation through my head. What to expect, what to do, and how I will handle everything. Being prepared is key…

I used to try and block out those sleepless nights, but figured why? It is part of my DNA. I want to do my best in every situation and losing some sleep over doing my best is a fair price to pay. I used to have a notebook on my nightstand to help me capture the thoughts and worries from my sleep. Not anymore. I just chose to get up and document my thoughts in my digital notebook. Then come back to review, rewrite and act upon my notes. It has worked over the years… When I was delivering messages to employees that were being redeployed, I was able to play the discussion over and over in my head. I was definitely prepared for the worse, but never had the worse happen. For those big presentations, I have to say, they have gone very well. At least that is the feedback that I have received from the audience.

I know I am not alone, am I? What do you do to move on from the tossing and turning? Do the notebook or hope to remember everything the next day?

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Road Trip to Balloon Festival

Oct06
2011
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This past weekend was something special. Some of the family went out on the road to take a trip together. My daughter, son-in-law and their two girls joined my wife and I on a trip to visit family in Corrales, NM. Road trips are special in many ways. They get all of you in a very closed in space with nothing but time on your hands. Since this was the first family road trip in a very long time, it brought back memories. We talked about all of the past road trips memories. We laughed (mostly at my expense) about the happenings on those trips. It was pretty cool.

We decided that we would head over during the night. We had to wait for everyone to get off of work… Since we were traveling with two very small children, they could sleep most of the trip. Driving for around 7 hours in the dark is definitely interesting. The most exciting part of that trip was when an elk decided to cross the road. Definitely woke up everyone in the car. We arrived in plenty of time (around 4:30am) to get to the Albuquerque International Balloon Festival! Parked and met up with family inside the event.

The views of watching those hot air balloons getting ready to launch is pretty cool. For most of us, it was our second time. We did have a few first timers…  There were over 500 hot air balloons that morning that launched in the mass ascension. The pictures in this post come from our family cameras. Not professionally done, but we like them. Watching my grand daughter’s face when we were in the middle of the field with all of the balloons getting to ascend was pretty special. She was pointing out all of the balloons and commenting on the ones that she liked. Made the trip well worth it.

Or fun times were just beginning. We spent the rest of our trip catching up with the my brother-in-law and his family. Of course, we had to watch NFL football. We were staying with one of the biggest Pittsburgh Steelers families and watched the game in the man cave. We all got to watch the interaction with the cousins… It is funny to watch how they get along for only really being with each other a few times a year. The running around, laughter, sharing and just talking to each other was pretty cool. When in New Mexico, you have to eat green chile… I definitely did! Love the Hatch green chiles.

Our last day came up pretty quickly, not before we got a knock on the door from a hot air balloon pilot asking to launch his balloon in the yard next door. Was very cool to have your own private viewing. The pilot was trying to drop his key on the target to win a car… Shortly after that we set out for the drive back. The drive back seemed longer than the drive out.. Maybe it was the rain that we drove in and out of all the way home. Overall, the trip was awesome. Getting to spend time with family is very important to me. Spending time with the grand kids is something very special and I would not trade those times for nothing…

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